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Reality on Trial – The Supreme Court, Women’s Sports, and What Comes Next for New Hampshire

Bronwyn Sims is the Southern New Hampshire Chapter Leader for Independent Women’s Network. Originally appeared in Grok! New Hampshire.


How the Supreme Court Confronted Gender Ideology—and Why New Hampshire Must Follow Suit. When the Supreme Court convened this week to hear West Virginia v. B.P.J. and Little v. Hecox, the nine justices faced a question that once would have sounded absurd: must states allow biological males to compete in girls’ and women’s sports?

It is not merely a case about volleyball or track. It is the test of whether America’s legal system will acknowledge the physical realities that Title IX was written to protect—or replace them with a doctrine of identity untethered from biology, fairness, or common sense.

The Reality Check at the High Court

For months, activists framed these cases as battles for “inclusion.” But the arguments inside the Supreme Court chamber exposed something deeper: a movement built on denial.

Justice Samuel Alito asked the lead attorney for the trans-identifying athlete a simple, essential question: “What does it mean to be a boy or a girl, or a man or a woman?” The attorney paused, stumbled, and finally conceded, “We do not have a definition for the Court.” This answer, broadcast across the country, revealed the fatal flaw in gender ideology: in a courtroom charged with deciding how “sex” should be interpreted under law, the movement’s foremost advocates could not define the word itself.

Alliance Defending Freedom President and CEO Kristen Waggoner, who argued in support of West Virginia’s law, later noted another troubling feature of the day: several justices casually used activist language such as “cisgender,” as if it were neutral legal vocabulary rather than a deeply contested label. She emphasized that words shape law, and that adopting terms like “cisgender” effectively recasts women as a variant identity—rather than as the sex Title IX was meant to protect—while smuggling ideological assumptions into constitutional interpretation.

​Perhaps most striking, as Waggoner pointed out, was who went unmentioned in the courtroom. The women and girls actually harmed in Idaho and West Virginia—the athletes displaced hundreds of times by a male runner, the competitors facing increased risk of injury, the girls pushed out of their locker rooms—were largely invisible in the formal dialogue. Their lost titles, diminished opportunities, and compromised privacy existed as footnotes, not as the central civil-rights injury the Court was ostensibly there to address.

​Three years after filmmaker Matt Walsh’s What Is a Woman? challenged the public to confront the basic question that now stumped a Supreme Court advocate, the nation’s highest court found itself in the same position: ideology staring down reality—and losing the argument.

Science, Law, and the Limits of Inclusion

The legal issues at stake were clear. West Virginia and Idaho each enacted “Save Women’s Sports” laws to ensure that female athletic categories remain based on biological sex. The plaintiffs, males identifying as girls, claimed those laws violated Title IX and the Equal Protection Clause.

Supporters of the state laws, including the Independent Council on Women’s Sports (ICONS), IWN Independent Women’s Network and the Alliance Defending Freedom, cited decades of data: post‑puberty males maintain a 10 to 50 percent athletic advantage over females even after long periods of hormone suppression. These advantages arise from bone structure, muscle mass, lung capacity, and androgen exposure—facts of life, not ideology.

The ICONS brief warned that redefining “sex” to mean “gender identity” would “sound the death knell for women’s sport.” It’s not an exaggeration. In West Virginia, one male athlete displaced girls in competition more than 700 times during the injunction against the law. In North Carolina, volleyball player Payton McNabb suffered partial paralysis after a spike from a male opponent. These are not abstractions; they are warning flares.

Even Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg acknowledged in the 1996 VMI ruling that “physical differences between men and women are enduring… the two sexes are not fungible.” Women’s sports exist precisely because those differences matter.

The Cult of Denial

During the hearings, progressive advocates reacted with what can only be called disbelief. When pressed about fairness, safety, or biology, they recited slogans about “affirmation” and “inclusion,” but offered no way to reconcile those values with objective performance data.

Outside the Court, one activist told reporters she didn’t see “why we split up sports” at all—insisting a woman could play basketball as well as any man if she simply practiced enough. It was a soundbite from another planet, and emblematic of what Matt Walsh called “the cult of denial” now consuming the Left.

This isn’t a debate over compassion; it’s a contest between truth and wishful thinking. A society that cannot define a woman cannot safeguard one, either on the field or in the law—and a Court that cannot speak plainly about sex will struggle to protect the very class Title IX was enacted to serve. Truth matters.

From Washington to Concord: The Stakes for New Hampshire

For women in New Hampshire, this fight is anything but abstract. In 2024, Governor Chris Sununu signed HB 1205, ensuring student-athletes play on teams that match the sex listed on their birth certificates. Yet a year later, Governor Kelly Ayotte vetoed HB 148, a broader measure that would have guaranteed single‑sex bathrooms, locker rooms, and sports.

That veto left women unprotected in precisely the spaces where fairness and safety collide.

Meanwhile, most recently the NH legislature advanced Senate Bill 268, grounded in the Independent Women’s Network’s Stand With Women model, defining “male” and “female” in state law and permitting sex‑based classification in sports, shelters, prisons, and similar facilities. The bill passed the House but awaits gubernatorial approval. Will Governor Ayotte sign the bill this time?

The public mandate could not be clearer. According to a May 2024 poll, 74 percent of Granite State voters—including majorities of Democrats, Republicans, and independents—support separate locker rooms and restrooms for biological males and females. Women and men alike overwhelmingly back clear sex‑based protections.

Yet the political class hesitates, fearing activist outrage more than the electorate’s will.

Voices from the Ground

As a coach, athlete, and Southern New Hampshire leader in the Independent Women’s Network, the stakes are visible in every gym and locker room. Girls competing against male athletes lose titles and scholarships; they lose the joy of fair play; they lose the privacy and dignity of female‑only spaces.

Our ICONS brief, signed by 135 women across sports, documents these harms. Swimmers forced to undress beside biological males. Cyclists and golfers losing podiums to male competitors. Coaches fearing professional punishment for speaking truthfully.

These aren’t “culture‑war” hypotheticals—they’re the lived fallout of policies that erase sex in law and language alike, and of courtrooms that speak in euphemisms rather than naming the women who are paying the price.

What the Court’s Decision Means

A ruling in favor of West Virginia would reaffirm what Title IX originally promised: equal opportunity based on sex. It would make clear that Bostock v. Clayton County, the 2020 employment‑discrimination case, does not override the physical realities that define athletic competition. States would retain the right—and responsibility—to preserve female categories for biological females.

A ruling against West Virginia would constitutionalize the concept of gender identity, forcing states to treat males as female for all legal purposes and dismantling decades of progress for women.

From the tone of the oral arguments, many legal observers believe the Court will side with reality and uphold women’s sports. But even the best decision in Washington cannot substitute for courage in Concord NH.

The Next Step for New Hampshire

In a state where nearly three‑quarters of voters back biology‑based protections, it’s time for leadership that reflects that consensus. Governor Ayotte’s veto of HB 148 in 2025 was a retreat. In 2026, she has the chance—and the obligation—to correct it by signing legislation that restores clarity, not confusion.

Our Southern New Hampshire chapter of the Independent Women’s Network is mobilizing for exactly that: letters, testimony, and local organizing to ensure that fairness and safety are not partisan values but shared principles written into law.

The National Association of Intercollegiate Athletics recently adopted a model policy: the male category is open to everyone; the female category is reserved for those born female and not on testosterone. Simple, compassionate, and fair. It’s a roadmap for our state. Please DM me if you want more info.

Reality Reasserts Itself

The hearings this week made one thing plain: the ideology that tried to erase biology is out of arguments. When lawyers cannot define a woman before the Supreme Court, when activists deny the science visible in every Olympic record and every high‑school scoreboard, and when even justices adopt euphemisms like “cisgender” rather than speaking plainly, reality is already winning.

The question now is whether our lawmakers will side with it.

For the girls training in New Hampshire gyms and swimming pools, who dream of fair competition and safety in their own spaces, that question is everything.

Biology is not bigotry. Its fairness, safety, and opportunity—the foundations Title IX was written to uphold. The Supreme Court may soon declare that truth on a national stage. When it does, New Hampshire must be ready to act on it.

Indoctrinating children to leftist political beliefs a top priority in Northern Virginia

Stephanie Lundquist-Arora is a contributor for IW Features, The Federalist and the Washington Examiner, a mother in Fairfax County, Virginia, an author and the Fairfax chapter leader of the Independent Women’s Network. Her articles have also appeared in National Review, Fox News Digital, The Daily Signal and Townhall. Originally appeared on The Washington Times.


Virginia Delegate Dan Helmer, District 10 Democrat, introduced a bill this week encouraging public school boards to adopt an instructional program that would mandate portraying the events of Jan. 6, 2021, exclusively as a violent insurrection and bar discussion of 2020 election fraud claims.

It’s just one example of many in which Democrats are clearly trying to institutionalize their beliefs in our children’s public school policies and curricula.

Northern Virginia’s public school districts’ leaders don’t need any further encouragement from state legislators. In 2020, for example, Fairfax County Public Schools paid Ibram X. Kendi $20,000 for an hourlong virtual presentation to district leaders and principals on his beliefs that all policies are either “racist” or “not racist,” with nothing in between.

Now, Northern Virginia’s school district leaders are engaged in a legal battle with the federal government to allow boys in girls’ bathrooms and sports. Rather than abiding by Title IX and requiring transgender-identifying students to use single-use bathrooms or those based on their sex, Democratic activist leaders in these school districts are compelling speech with mandated “preferred pronouns” and sacrificing the comfort of the many for the whims of the very few.

For these activists, identity boxes are prioritized above education. In addition to making sure children are taught the “right way” to think about Jan. 6, Delegate Joshua Cole, District 65 Democrat, introduced a bill this session that changes the definition of “bullying” to specify “the real or perceived power imbalance” between students based on their membership in a protected class.

In other words, if this bill passes, when two students have an argument in their public school, then the cross-section of all their identities is likely to become more important than the conflict itself.

Regardless of political inclinations, it seems that everyone should agree that the purpose of public education is to educate children. Based on Virginia Democrats’ priorities — pushing political narratives and institutionalizing identity hierarchies — one might think the primary mission is accomplished and students are excelling in their public schools.

That’s not the case. Ironically, while Mr. Helmer tries to control the Jan. 6 narrative, according to the Virginia Department of Education, 34% of Virginia’s public school students failed their history standards of learning test last year. Delegates would better spend their work hours and efforts remedying the fact that fully one-third of Virginia’s students have a poor understanding of basic history.

Across the state, 29% of students failed their science standards of learning test, 28% failed math, 24% failed English writing and 26% failed English reading. The failure rates are even more dismal for Virginia’s economically disadvantaged children.

According to the Virginia Department of Education, 39% of economically disadvantaged students failed their English reading standards of learning test, 38% failed English writing, 41% failed math, 43% failed science and 46% failed history.

So while Virginia Democrats such as Messrs. Helmer and Cole and other equity warriors are introducing and passing legislation to prioritize fringe issues in public education, Virginia’s poorer students are failing at alarming rates. That’s the opposite of equity.

If state legislators truly want to improve public education for Virginia’s children, they should introduce legislation that requires school boards to allocate public funds based on students’ academic outcomes and limit expenditures in categories such as administrative staff and legal fees.

Teacher Claims Conflict Of Interest In Suit Against FCPS’s Alleged Retaliation

Stephanie Lundquist-Arora is a contributor to Independent Women’s Features, The Federalist and the Washington Examiner, a mother in Fairfax County, Virginia, an author, and the Fairfax chapter leader of the Independent Women’s Network. Originally appeared on The Federalist.


Last month, Zenaida Perez, a teacher in Fairfax County Public Schools (FCPS), filed a lawsuit against the district for defamation and retaliation against a whistleblower. Strangely, King & Spalding, the law firm that the district’s superintendent, Michelle Reid, hired to be the “external independent investigator” of Perez’s allegations, is now representing FCPS in its defense.

In May 2022, Perez, who has taught FCPS’s English for Speakers of Other Languages (ESOL) students since 2008, told Centreville High School’s principal, Chad Lehman, that the school’s social worker, Carolina Diaz, facilitated an abortion for a minor student without her guardian’s consent.

In her signed statement (translated from Spanish), the student wrote, “Mrs. Carolina Diaz scheduled the appointment for me at the abortion clinic in Fairfax, paid the costs of that medical procedure, and kept everything quiet without informing my family.”

After Perez told Lehman about the school staff member’s involvement in the minor’s abortion, she says that she faced multiple incidents of retaliation and defamation from school and district administration. For example, her lawsuit states, “On April 8, 2025, an 18-year-old male student… confided to Perez that [Assistant Principal Montell] Brown instructed him to ask Perez for a ride in her personal vehicle to Costco, and that once Perez gave him the ride, he was to report the incident to Brown, so that he could write Perez up.”

Julie Perry, a teacher at Centreville High School who is familiar with the case and knows the student involved, believes that FCPS is retaliating against Perez for being a whistleblower. She said, “It makes me very sad to see my colleague, Zenaida, being heavily retaliated against because she was only doing the right thing by reporting illegal activity.”

Oddly, the district’s leaders didn’t seem concerned with Perez’s claims until the public was made aware of them. Only after the media reported on the abortion allegations did district leadership hire the expensive law firm to investigate. In an email to Centreville High School staff, dated Aug. 7, 2025, Reid wrote, “[T]he division has taken immediate action to engage an external independent investigator to get all the facts.”

Ongoing Investigation

In August and September, Fairfax County Public Schools paid the law firm $980,515.14 in taxpayer funds to investigate Perez’s claims. And while there is still an ongoing Virginia State Police criminal investigation into the matter, on Oct. 16, King & Spalding issued an inconclusive report stating that Perez’s allegations were “likely untrue.”

It seems that FCPS’s leaders are more interested in appearing to try to get to the bottom of things only when there is concern among the public that threatens the district’s image.

Conflict of Interest

Monique Miles, Perez’s attorney, noted that “King & Spalding can’t be both neutral fact finder and defense. There is an inherent conflict of interest in King & Spalding representing FCPS as counsel in both matters.” 

Miles further argues that “FCPS has lost all credibility by hiring King & Spalding to do an external independent investigation, where they released a preliminary report to the Senate [Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions] HELP Committee and the U.S. Department of Education Acting General Counsel inferring that Perez was a liar and claiming that the evidence doesn’t support her claims (when it does, especially the audio recordings), and then by hiring King & Spalding’s same attorneys, the very next week, to represent FCPS in defending against Perez’s lawsuit for defamation and retaliation.”

Perez on Administrative Leave

After King & Spalding released its inconclusive report in October, and while Diaz keeps her job as school social worker and Lehman was promoted, FCPS placed Perez on administrative leave. Perez believes that her suspension is permanent because, she said, district leaders insisted that she turn in her laptop, keys, and all district property. They also, according to Perez, terminated her email account and revoked her access to the student information system.

FCPS’s leaders were not interested in getting to the bottom of things until their public image was threatened. Now Perez’s lawsuit should reveal more about how they retaliated against the whistleblower.

‘Queen’ Michelle Reid and Fairfax County’s $4 billion school bullies

This op-ed was written by Stephanie Lundquist-Arora, a contributor to Independent Women’s Features, The Federalist and the Washington Examiner, a mother in Fairfax County, Virginia, an author, and the Fairfax chapter leader of the Independent Women’s Network. Originally appeared in The Washington Times.


Last month, Zenaida Perez, a Fairfax County Public Schools teacher, filed a lawsuit alleging that school and district officials defamed her character and retaliated against her for being a whistleblower.

According to the lawsuit, in May 2022, Ms. Perez told Chad Lehman, the principal of Centreville High School, that a minor student had undergone an abortion without the knowledge of her guardian. Ms. Perez alleged that Carolina Diaz, the school’s social worker, facilitated the abortion.

In a signed statement (translated from Spanish), the student who had the abortion wrote, “Mrs. Carolina Diaz scheduled the appointment for me at the abortion clinic in Fairfax, paid the costs of that medical procedure, and kept everything quiet without informing my family.”

After reporting the abortion, Ms. Perez said, she faced multiple incidents of retaliation before the district placed her on administrative leave. For example, her lawsuit states, “On April 8, 2025, an 18-year-old male student … confided to Perez that [Assistant Principal Montell] Brown instructed him to ask Perez for a ride in her personal vehicle to Costco, and that once Perez gave him the ride, he was to report the incident to Brown, so that he could write Perez up.”

Given that school officials were aware of Ms. Perez’s allegations in 2022, many parents are wondering why FCPS waited until this August, after media reports about the abortion, to hire an expensive law firm, King & Spalding, to initiate an investigation. In August and September, the district paid the firm $980,515.14.

Ms. Perez argues that the firm is meant to maintain the district’s image. She said, “If they had nothing to hide, they wouldn’t have hired that expensive law firm to conceal what they did.”

One of Ms. Perez’s colleagues at Centreville High School, Julie Perry, who knows the students involved and is intimately familiar with the case, said school officials are retaliating against Ms. Perez. Ms. Perry said, “It makes me very sad to see my colleague, Zenaida, being heavily retaliated against because she was only doing the right thing by reporting illegal activity.”

Ms. Perez’s case is far from the only example of FCPS’s retaliation against community members who are inconvenient to its reputation or political agenda. “Kate” — an alias name used in the courtroom for a former FCPS student who alleges that school and district leadership are responsible for a sexual assault she experienced in 2011 when she was in seventh grade — is quite familiar with the district’s wrath under the leadership of “Queen” Michelle Reid, the superintendent.

In 2024, attorneys for the district reportedly demanded that Kate undergo vaginal and anal exams, even though she allegedly sustained the injuries in 2011. The attorneys also insisted that she owed the district approximately $250,000 for legal fees.

In 2021, in Fairfax County School Board v. Tisler and Oettinger, the district sued two mothers, Debra Tisler and Callie Oettinger, because they obtained information from a Freedom of Information Act request that was arguably embarrassing to the district and then published the documents on the internet. The mothers were forced to retain counsel but ended up prevailing.

Judge Richard Gardiner ruled in the defendants’ favor. He acknowledged that Ms. Tisler and Ms. Oettinger lawfully obtained truthful information via the FOIA request and referred to the school board’s argument as “frivolous.” He said, “It’s clearly also about a matter of public significance because this has to do with legal bills that are being paid by the taxpayers of Fairfax County.” He added, “The Board, for whatever reason, maybe it was ineptness … made the decision to turn over the information, and they’re stuck with that.”

About a year later, in 2022, FCPS suspended my three sons for 39 cumulative days because of “dress code” violations for not wearing masks — after Gov. Glenn Youngkin issued an executive order permitting parents to opt out of school mask mandates. Despite my subsequent appeal, all the way up to “Queen” Reid, the district refused to expunge these obviously political penalties. Next fall, my eldest will be applying to colleges with these suspensions on his academic record. Really, nothing says retaliation more clearly than politically persecuting children.

Since 2019, FCPS’s leaders have spent $44 million on legal fees. At least some of this money, coming from its massive $4 billion annual budget, is being used to bully parents, children and community members who are inconvenient for their image or agenda. As Kate said, “The school district’s traditional defense whenever anyone speaks up is to scream that they’re lying or fraudulent. Then, they hire big law defense firms billing millions in taxpayer dollars to crush the everyday person and polish their own image through public relations.”

There is no better way to challenge bullies than to take their weapons. In this case, Fairfax County’s residents must demand an independent, external audit of the district’s massive budget and insist that tax dollars not be used to bully its community members into submission.

From Luke Air Force Base To Main Street: How Washington’s Shutdown Is Hitting Arizona Hard

Alison Furno is an Arizona Resident, Small Business Owner, and Independent Women’s Network Phoenix Co-Leader. This article originally appeared on AZ Free News.


As an Arizonan, a small business owner, and a concerned citizen, I’m deeply troubled by how the Left’s government shutdown is hurting our communities. Every day Washington fails to act, hardworking Arizonans pay the price.

Military families at bases like Luke and Davis-Monthan, air traffic controllers keeping our skies safe, National Guard members protecting our borders, and countless small business owners are being forced to shoulder the consequences of political inaction—many continuing to serve without pay or any certainty about the future. Furloughed federal workers in Tucson and Phoenix are dipping into savings just to cover groceries, while delayed permits and contracts grind local projects to a halt.

I run two small businesses here in Arizona—a volleyball coaching company and a social media management brand—so I see firsthand how government shutdowns ripple through real lives. They slow things down, shake confidence, and make it harder for families and business owners to plan ahead. When federal payments stall, suppliers wait longer to get paid, employees across industries worry about their next paycheck, and everyday customers start cutting back. It’s working families, small businesses, and community builders who feel it most—while politicians argue over deadlines and programs they created themselves.

Let’s rewind to March 2021. President Joe Biden signed the American Rescue Plan—a massive spending package sold as emergency relief. Hidden inside was an expansion of premium tax credits under the Affordable Care Act, increasing federal payouts to insurers and expanding who qualifies. These subsidies were supposed to be temporary bridges to help Americans get through the pandemic. Yet years later, some in Washington are treating them as untouchable—willing to shut down the government rather than let them expire.

These subsidies were never meant to be permanent, and they can’t be sustained responsibly. The Congressional Budget Office projected that making them permanent would add over $34 billion to the federal deficit in the next decade.

Even worse, these handouts have distorted the healthcare market. When the government guarantees bigger subsidies no matter the cost, insurers and providers raise prices—knowing taxpayers will cover the difference. Executives pocket bonuses, red tape piles up, and real healthcare workers get squeezed. What was supposed to make care “affordable” has instead insulated the system from competition and transparency, driving costs higher for everyone not lucky enough to qualify for the subsidies.

The hard truth is that the Affordable Care Act never lived up to its name. It drove up prices and created layers of bureaucracy. Now, temporary subsidies—originally sold as short-term relief—are being treated as permanent entitlements. Holding the government and everyday Americans hostage over these failed policies is simply wrong.

Senators Kelly and Gallego, you represent a state known for independence and common sense. The House has already passed a clean Continuing Resolution to fund the government and end this unnecessary pain. Support it. Reopen federal agencies. Let our military families breathe easier, our air traffic controllers get their paychecks, and our small businesses plan for the future without Washington’s chaos.

Arizona’s working people have carried enough. It’s time for our leaders to choose stability over subsidies, solutions over gridlock, and the Grand Canyon State over partisan games. End the shutdown now.

Virginians deserve answers about who will stand for women

This op-ed was written by Carrie Lukas, a mother of five, resident of Fairfax County, and member of Independent Women’s Network. Originally appeared in Fairfax County Times.


Fifty-eight-year-old Virginia resident Richard Cox has been sent to prison five times. In 1992, he was indicted for entering a school gymnasium and masturbating in front of children. In the last few years, Cox has claimed to identify as a woman. He changed his Virginia driver’s license to “female” and asserted his right to use women’s facilities. As a result, as one horrified Virginia mother detailed, he was allowed to expose himself in a Virginia public high school bathroom and watch young girls change for swim class. 

Do my fellow Virginians think that Richard Cox should be allowed into girls’ changing rooms and disrobe around young girls? 

It’s really not a hard question to answer. But somehow, some candidates to represent us in Congress and in Richmond refuse to say whether they support Richard Cox’s right to expose himself in school bathrooms or if they support protecting the safety and privacy of women and girls. 

James Walkinshaw has been asked numerous times to comment on this issue, specifically regarding Richard Cox, and has declined to do so. Walkinshaw is running in a special election for the 11th Congressional District in Virginia. If he enters Congress, he will vote on legislation to keep men out of women’s sports, prisons, and other private places. Shouldn’t he clarify his stance on issues like this? Walkinshaw has refused to answer these questions during this campaign, but we know that as a member of the Fairfax County Board of Supervisors, he enthusiastically embraced policies allowing people to select the facility that matches their declared gender identity. In other words, Walkinshaw explicitly championed the very policies that allowed Richard Cox to enter that girls’ locker room. 

Gubernatorial candidate Abigail Spanberger has also dodged questions about Richard Cox and whether men like him should be allowed into girls’ locker rooms, including in public schools. Yet her record is also crystal clear. As a member of Congress, she consistently voted against bills that would have preserved Title IX sex-based protections and ensured that women’s sports and spaces, including locker rooms, are reserved for women only and predators like Richard Cox are kept out. 

Contrast that with their Republican opponents. Stewart Whitson, who is running against Walkinshaw for the 11th district, and Gubernatorial candidate Winsome Sears haven’t had any trouble answering on this issue. Of course, they oppose letting men into women’s sports and spaces. Stewart Whitson is a former FBI agent, a father of five young children currently attending schools in Virginia, and has emphatically stated that one of the reasons he is seeking office is to stand up for common-sense policies, such as keeping men out of women’s spaces. Winsome Sears has been equally vocal. 

Undoubtedly, apologists for Walkinshaw and Spanberger—if they are willing to speak about this subject—would likely say that, of course, they don’t want registered sex offenders and convicted criminals like Cox to abuse the system. They only want men and boys who really identify as women to access women’s locker rooms. However, they are unlikely to offer any solutions for how to enforce that distinction. They want Virginians to trust that, somehow, the authorities in our schools and in these facilities will be able to identify those men who sincerely believe they are women and those who are just using gender identity as a fig leaf to shower next to your daughter.

Do you trust them? 

I don’t. I have five children of my own, and my daughter is currently enrolled in Fairfax County Public Schools. Fairfax County school officials are currently demonstrating that they are so committed to allowing men into women’s spaces that they will jeopardize $160 million in federal funding. They are very, very worried that Richard Cox or some other male claiming a female identity will be made uncomfortable by having to use a facility based on his sex. They aren’t so worried, apparently, about the consequences for women and girls if another Richard Cox slips through the cracks of the system. 

There is a better solution. I feel confident that FCPS and Virginia leaders could find ways to accommodate trans-identifying community members—like finding single-use bathrooms—that would be sensitive to their needs but prioritize the safety of women and girls. That seems to me like the common-sense solution. Why can’t Walkinshaw and Spanberger just say that they too care about women and girls? That they know that women and girls are uniquely vulnerable to exploitation? What is holding them back? 

The fact that they refuse to answer speaks volumes.